One of the wonderful things about the Bible is that its language is rich, full of meaning that often goes even deeper when you study it in its original languages. Although English translations offer a very close approximation of what’s written (and are translated with the intent to closely match the meaning of the original text), there are cases where knowing the meaning of the Hebrew, Greek or Aramaic words can add an extra layer of meaning to what you’re reading.
That’s true in the case of the word love. There are multiple words that are commonly used in the Bible to describe love, below you’ll find one Hebrew word and two Greek words. Each has a slightly different meaning, so knowing which words are used in each verse can give you a fuller picture of the verse’s meaning.
Here are three words for love, their meanings, and where you can find them:
- Hesed
This Hebrew word, written as “חֶסֶד,” is often used in the Old Testament. It’s difficult to translate, and it’s represented in English as lovingkindness, mercy, or loyalty. It’s often used when speaking of God’s love for His people, and a closer look at this unique word reveals a lot.
First of all, hesed implies a lot more than just love, or kindness. It means a love that someone in authority has for a person (or group) that is below them, whom that person loves and would like to bless and encourage. This type of love is independent of anything those blessed with it might have done to be worthy, and it’s an active word—implying actions done to bless those who are loved. Grace and favor have a lot to do with hesed love.
Hesed is illustrated nicely in the story of Ruth, whose kinsman-redeemer Boaz felt hesed for the young widow—and in verses like Psalm 25:6.
- Agape
This Greek word (ἀγάπη) is used to describe a high form of love. Similar to the Hebrew hesed, agape is often used to refer to the covenantal love between God and His people. Agape love is an unconditional, universal and unbreakable love that will be there regardless of changes in circumstances or feelings.
Agape love does not stem simply from feelings or from pleasant interactions with another person, but from a deep respect, honor, and commitment. Agape love takes action by directly caring for others, giving sacrificially of oneself, in a deep desire to help the other party and see them become their best.
You’ll find agape love mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13, the beautiful passage about real and lasting love that’s often read at weddings today.
- Phileo
In Greek, phileo (or Φιλἐω) refers to a companionable love—a comfortable love between friends, one called into being by the pleasure found in one another.
Phileo love is more about feelings than commitment or actions, and although it’s powerful it can be broken. You can see the difference between phileo and agape in the conversation between Jesus and Peter after the Lord’s resurrection. Peter had denied that he knew Jesus three times, and Jesus reinstates his friend by asking three times if Peter loves him…Jesus asks, “Peter, do you agape love me?” and Peter, his bravado shaken by how he’d failed, responds with the less-powerful “I phileo love you.”
Phileo is also the root of the word Philadelphia, which combines phileo (love) with adelphos, which means brother. While you probably know Philadelphia as an American city, the word also appears in the Bible in the book of Revelation.
If you’d like to know more about these words and others, you can use the study tools at Bible Gateway or Bible Hub to dig into the text, use concordances, read commentary, and see verses in different languages—including Greek and Hebrew. Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance is a nice resource to have at home, and if you’d like to learn how to look up words in a concordance the video below will help.
Wow, this is a topic that is close to my heart. I really feel Christians have deluded the more common words in the Bibles just because of the hearing them so many time. Then, of course, putting their own personal spin on a word because of their life situations. What you have enlightened us with is beautifully written. As the old saying goes, “to get to the heart of the matter, you have to go to heart of the matter.”
Question; Do you have a book, or is there a book, of words that have been loosely used, misunderstood, misinterpreted, or poorly translated into today’s society? Thank you and may God richly bless you for your work. Len
Wow, this is a topic that is close to my heart. I really feel Christians have deluded the more common, yet amazingly powerful words, in the Bible. We hear powerful biblical words so many times we tend to glaze over them. Then, of course, we trend toward putting our own personal spin on a word because of our life situations, etc. What you have enlightened us with is beautifully written and absolute truth. As the old saying goes, “to get to the heart of the matter, you must go to the heart of the matter.”
Question; Do you have a book, or is there a book, of words that have been loosely used, misunderstood, misinterpreted, or poorly translated into today’s society?
Thank you and may God richly bless you for your work. Len
Thanks for your work. Do you agree that the Christian Gospel is the Gospel about the kingdom of god, and that Gospel of the kingdom is exactly the same as the gospel of the grace of God (ie Acts 20:24, 25) ? Thanks.
Thank you, the explanation of the difference in how the word love is used in the bible was very helpful.
May we all embrace and become infused with God’s love. Here is something I found in The Passion Translation by Brian Simmons:
a. The Aramaic word for love is hooba, and it is a homonym that also means “to set on fire.” It is difficult to fully express the meaning of this word and translate it into English. You could say the Aramaic concept is “burning love” or “fiery love,” coming from the inner depths of the heart as an eternal energy, an active power of bonding hearts and lives in secure relationships. The Greek word is agapē, which describes the highest form of love. It is the love God has for his people. It is an intense affection that must be demonstrated. It is a loyal, endless, and unconditional commitment of love. Feelings are attached to this love. It is not abstract, but devoted to demonstrating the inward feelings of love toward another with acts of kindness and benevolence.